Dave Winer, the Heckler with a Heart

September 21st, 2007 by Bullshit Mancuso

You can now watch Jason Calacanis’ onstage incident with Dave Winer at Gnomedex. On the Flash video, skip to the 450,000-byte mark to see Calacanis squirm after Winer throws a hissyfit from the crowd. Their exchange:

Winer: This is conference spam! You’re spamming us right now.

Calacanis: How am I spamming you Dave?

Winer: This is spam. Look at the screen. Look what’s on the screen, Jason.

Calacanis: I’m talking about the issue …

Crosstalk, laughter

Chris Pirillo: Let him finish!

Unknown: He’s the speaker. You’re not.

Calacanis, who recently compared his life as an entrepreneur to being a samurai killing people in each village he visits, gets a deer in the headlights look as his friend Winer sparks a round of heckling from the Gnomedex audience.

Seeing the video took Winer right back to his hurty place, as you can tell by reading a Twitter chat he had last night with Robert Scoble and Intel blogger Josh Bancroft (some of which Winer subsequently deleted):

Josh Bancroft: Morbidly curious? Want to watch the whole Calacanis/Winer blowup about conference spam at Gnomedex 2007? http://tinyurl.com/22ttxw

Dave Winer: @jabancroft, what did you think of it? could it have been resolved without a flamefest? how can we do this better in the future?

Dave: why not be part of the solution, upgrade the discourse, don’t sensationalize. that’s what they do on CNN. let’s do better. what do you say?

Josh: @davewiner I tend to agree that it was conference spam, and that the “flamefest” came from clashing strong personalities.

Dave: Really, it came from clashing personalities — maybe you should check that out and see if your impression is accurate. I don’t think it is.

Josh: @davewiner I’m pointing people to the (presumably unedited) video, so they can decide for themselves. No sensationalism intended.

Dave: I sat out the first two days. How do I know? I drove from Seattle to Berkeley. So the flaming, such as it was, was one-way.

Josh: @davewiner this is the first time I’ve seen the video of the session available.

Dave: People-bashing is just plain wrong. These conferences should be about ideas. When the people become the target, it goes off the rails.

Josh: @davewiner You’re reading a lot into my motives, Dave. Dangerous. I’m not trying make the flames come back.

Dave: That might be the core principal of the civility crusade O’Reilly was on. Making people the issue is wrong. Stick to ideas.

Josh: @davewiner If anything, I’m hoping to help it all come to an end, now that anyone can watch the video and decide for themselves what happnd.

Dave: I feel I’ve given enough. How do I resign from that position?

Josh: I apologize if my wording was inflammatory. Wasn’t meant to be. I’m sorry I even mentioned it/picked at the scab.

Dave: I don’t think people get how utterly EXHAUSTING it is to be objectified and villified as a form of entertainment.

Josh: I think you underestimate how many people are on your side. I respect and look up to you. I’m sorry you’ve gone through all this.

Dave: @jabancroft, then why didn’t you say that? Look at what you actually said. I want to opt out of being bashed in the future.

Robert Scoble: @DaveWiner: I totally agree with you about how it feels to be objectified and vilified. It’s the downside of putting myself out there.

Scoble: People forget there are people on the other end of their blog posts. Or, worse, they attack for business reasons.

Scoble: But, on the other hand, I get so much goodness in return that focusing on the assholes is just unfair to the good people.

Scoble: I’m reading feeds right now and can’t keep up with the good people. The smart people. I love blogging for that. Hell with the haters.

Josh: @Scobleizer @davewiner I just love you guys so darn much, I want to give you all a big Internet Hug. :-)

Dave: Actually, I’d like to scratch that last comment. It’s been a relatively bad last hour. I wish I could relive it. Time for a walk. :-)

7 Responses to “Dave Winer, the Heckler with a Heart”

  1. Darby O'Bannon Says:

    what is it with this guy? he just won’t leave it alone. this calcanis spat is soooo yesterday. what is his obsession? really silly to an outside observer

  2. EyeOnWiner Says:

    With all due respect to Dave… he’s a big pansy. He’s probably just mad because anyone who sees that video will know exactly what happened: he was a huge asshole and then, instead of apologizing, he threw a little winer-tantrum.

  3. zaphodim Says:

    “Dave: I don’t think people get how utterly EXHAUSTING it is to be objectified and villified as a form of entertainment.”

    To those critics of winer, I say to each and every one: Job Well Done! If we didn’t keep up the pressure and constant vilification, dave would probably have more energy to piss off more people. But he’s too exhausted, poor baby.

  4. zaphodim Says:

    BTW, my .flv player only shows timecode, not bytes. Do you have an approximate time for the outburst? I don’t have the patience to sit through it all.

  5. Flavor FLV Says:

    Start at timecode 440.000 or thereabouts. You’ll soon hear the overbearing gasbag crap all over the Mahalo commercial.

  6. zaphodim Says:

    Thanks Flavor FLV, but 440.000 isn’t a timecode. I assumed that was a measurement in seconds, so I divided by 60, poked around and found the incident at 7:49 (7 minutes 49 seconds). Hope this helps anyone who, like me, doesn’t have the patience to sit through Calcanis’ tedious pontification.

  7. McD Says:

    “Dave: I don’t think people get how utterly EXHAUSTING it is to be objectified and villified as a form of entertainment.”

    I think Calacanis gets it but he seems to be able to let the negative energy go. When Calacanis got off stage he blogged his reaction to Dave in the next hour. It’s was the reaction to Jason’s reaction that triggered Dave’s fury. Then Calacanis goes on to give an interview to Wired detailing what is was like to be “winered” and to dredge up past events where Dave “acted out”.

    This will go on for years and years and years…

    And NOT just because we’re talking about it. Because it’s in the DNA of Dave’s personality. It happens as a pattern in his public relationships.